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Candy
IsraTrance Full Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 10:34
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Is it important to you that your companion should also be from the “trance world” or not?
I found it that if he isn’t it bothers me. Cause trance is more than music, it’s a way of life, a way of thinking.
Usually when I go out with people that don’t like it, I find it to be a major obstacle. Our ideas are different – it’s true that extremes are attracted to each other, but on the long term it almost never work.
Does this sound stupid?
I’d like to think I’m not the only one thinking like this.
  Majority is never right!
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Mike A
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 11:23
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I don't think that it matters. Of course if my partner will be a trance-addict as well it could be nice, we'll go to parties together and stuff but it's not that critical. Yes - trance is a way of life, but in my opinion having a girl with different opinions that me is also a mind opener. For example my girlfriend listens to pop mainly, so I am forced to listen to it as well  It also gives me ideas in my music creation, when you're not ONLY listening to trance.
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traveller
IsraTrance Senior Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 11:34
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Nope.. doesn't matter at all
"The dinosaurs became extinct because they didn't have a space program."
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voyager
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 15:41
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No my girlfriend doesn't have to like it, has really nothing to do with our relationship...
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NEO
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 16:38
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hamm thank god its not only me RaverGirl!
it does matter to me,i have some fraindse forme the "none" trance world,but i llike to habgout with ppl frome the psy world..donnu why its just more realistice then to be with ppl i dont have incoment...and thank god cus i thought i wase the only one who think like that  |
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PrincezzzToma
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 18:17
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RaverGirl, NEO, there are 3 of us now. For me it's a prolem too. One of my ex-bfs hated trance too much, you know, like he couldn't stand it! And as we met really often, soon i had no time to listen to music, because he kinda didn't let me... So we started to fight and finally broke up. Not because of trance, but because of everything, different ways of thinking. I love parties, he hates them, i like to dance and to have fun, he's quiet and prefers to sit down. Next one was a little better. I know, he didn't like trance, but at least he didn't tell me about it... He also hated all parties and discos... So this time i decided that i won't go out with a guy who doesn't like trance. This means that i'm gonna be alone for a long time... Cause in my town noone even knows trance.  I decided to write about this music to my school newspaper, so maybe someone will try to listen to it, and then will like it too... We'll see. Wish me good luck in finding my new love. lol
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Rotor
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 18:23
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well i think it doesnt matter at all ,its a question about tolerance ... anyway +
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Sound Surgeon
Crater / Mish-kah
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 19:15
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Personally i prefer my partner to love trance, but not all people are open minded...
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On 2002-12-15 18:17, PrincezzzToma wrote:
So this time i decided that i won't go out with a guy who doesn't like trance.
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come to Israel, LOL 
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Munchie
IsraTrance Full Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 20:03
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My gf doesn't listen to trance at all, and it can be a big problem sometimes. Every weekend she want's to stay with me, watch some movies, have a smoke, play some records - while I want to go out partying. So sometimes she comes with me, sometimes we do what she wants. Anyway, it can be a real problem sometimes, but now that winter has arrived, we'll probably be spending more time cuddled up under a blanket, so it'll be allright
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homsy
IsraTrance Full Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 20:27
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Judging by my history all of my ex's did not come from the world of trance and most of them didnt care much for electronic sounds at all.
In time viewing my love to this genre their opinion has changed and evolved.
I am a prson that respects the ideas of the other regardless if it fits my very own plate. And always likes to taste new flavores and smell new scents.
The best lessons I was tought in life came from people that are placed in a world so much different from mine, yet so the same - We are all people, we are all searching for the same basic things.
There is no right or wrong when it comes to love thats what makes it so special.
Remember:
LIFE, IS THE ONLY WAY OF LIFE...
all the rest can be viewed as seasonings in this big crunchy and groovy looking salad.
REJOICE
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yossi
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 20:32
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boom alecha ya homsy! 
same here... doesn't matter
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DETOX
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 20:35
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It doesnt matter but it would be nice if my girlfriend listened to psy trance music.
Toodaloo Motherfuckers!!!!! |
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Plan_B
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 21:13
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I Showed my GF this world. She fell for Juno Reactor and the delta. she is more into experimentsl-indie stuff. actually, i fell for more groups than she did... Hmmmm. anyway it's for the best. we went to some parties 2gether and it was fun (and ofcourse she dragged me to a concert ABROAD... (i paid for myself, she's not that rich ). good to have diversity.
Boom!
"The Blues is'nt about making you feel better. It's about making others feel worse, and make a few bucks while you're at it." - "Bleeding gums" Murphey. |
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Zombi
IsraTrance Senior Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 22:49
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i think two trance addicted together its too much. actualy never was with trance addicted girl in long relationship.
but im a urban dunkey
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andrejcid
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 15, 2002 22:56
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it's nice to have gf/bf who listens to psy trance. but on the other hand that narrows and limits the relationship on less things then otherwise there could have been. as some of u said, going out with someone "non psy" gives u an insight to another world and way of living, but it is still living and hounting for the same targets expressed in different ways. so u actually loose nothing.
personally my gf used to like rock a lot (she still does thou) and wasn't relly introduced to our psy culture very much, so i was the one who gave her indirectly an insight in it, but in return she teached me and gave me some experience with the rock culture.
so now we ussually go partying, but it is also often when we can be found in those black rock places or on a concert....
so don't limit your perceptions, see and try to accept what the other offers, and also respond in the same way.
PLUR
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