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PrincezzzToma
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Posted : Dec 16, 2002 23:54
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Chaos, i have same problem... Try to go to the thread "A reason to go to a party"... I don't have friends who listen to trance too, so i don't go to parties... I stay at home ans listen, and even dance alone in my room.  |
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Nathan
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Posted : Dec 17, 2002 00:29
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....and even dance alone in my room.
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me to.
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full_on
IsraTrance Team
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Posted : Dec 17, 2002 01:46
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Me too, and when I'm not alone I dance the same way...
I think we must share our good feelings about psytrance with our friends, this way we prepare them for the party.
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...Be gentle with the earth...
...Dance like nobody's watching...
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Kikina
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Posted : Dec 17, 2002 02:29
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Hey, at the beggining when I started to go to parties almost always I was going alone, but all people who are in this culture are very friendly and you will meet a lot of people. So, go on one party alone and on the next party, believe me, you will have a friend to go with.
About the boyfriend....if you want longer relationship it would be better your boyfriend to be trancer, because otherwise every friday and saturday you will have problems where to go. Don't mention the problem what kind of music to listen when you 2 are alone, his, or yours........ |
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P_Mac
IsraTrance Full Member
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Posted : Dec 17, 2002 13:06
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dalitos
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 17, 2002 13:25
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when i was 16 o.k 20 o.k 22. o.k
but you'll get over it- every week lsd.
life must fllow.
love it but do'nt get to hard with your self.
live it but do'nt destroy your own home .
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Candy
IsraTrance Full Member
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Posted : Dec 17, 2002 13:45
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I don’t do drugs (anymore).
Dalit, it has nothing to do with it.
Majority is never right!
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Xoltan
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Posted : Dec 17, 2002 20:54
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Well I know almost no one who likes trance, which for me is a way of thinking in some ways (linked to music) but definitely not a way of life...
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salvia_divinorum
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 17, 2002 22:13
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I kinda think like RaverGirl, for me trance really is a way of live. Almost all my friends listen to trance and I don't think I could have a boyfriend who didn't like it... of course that's not the most important, but how could I go out with someone who didn't share one of my main interests? I have some friends who don't listen to trance, and sometimes I wanna talk about music and parties and all that and they don't have a clue of what I'm talking about...
When I dance, I put myself in the DJ's hands to take me to a journey - the unconscious journey to reality
KARKEIJA KREW!!!!!!!! dancing is the phrr fo da powa |
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Never Winter
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Posted : Dec 17, 2002 22:46
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I find it hard to relate to people who can't understand this kind of music, so most, or all of my friends actually like it, they might not listen to it, but they do like, when I do.
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Subtle Distortion
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Posted : Dec 18, 2002 03:07
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My girlfriend loves trance. She was into the more commercial trance when we met then i took her to her first psy party and it was all over from that point. I've dated other girls who were not into psytrance as i was and i have to admit it affected me. One of the hottest features to see in a woman is to see them trance dancing their ass off at a party. To me that is attractive and is something i look for in a mate. There is nothing like dancing to some good trance music at a party with your girlfriend/lover together. When you can share that experience and both appreciate it equally its one of the most beautiful things to share with someone. It also makes it much easier when finding something to listen to in the car or finding something to do on the weekends. I also write trance music and its essential for my mate/girlfriend to at least like my music
Diversity is good, having different opinions can be good too but its easier to get along in the long run when you have some similar interests.
Not to mention sex at 145bpm to trance music RAWKS! 
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amazon
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 24, 2002 16:47
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i agree that its easier to have a strong relationship when you share the lifestyle, and trance is definately a lifestyle. thats why i married my favorite dj:):)
life is easy now!
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uvego
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 24, 2002 17:52
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You are lucky girl Amazon
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VertigOA
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Posted : Dec 24, 2002 19:14
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Trance is not a lifestyle for me. My GF loves it , but i wouldnt care if she didnt.
Theres many morethings than Trance that make up my lifestyle.
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Lyri
IsraTrance Junior Member
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Posted : Dec 25, 2002 14:47
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The love of music shouldn't be an obstacle in a relationship.
Sure music changes you sometimes, but -- It is not like YOU are the music.
When you're 40 with kids, and you work, and you're busy with surviving - you don't pay much attention on music and dressing and stuff that teenagers usually do.
When you love someone, what you two listen to is not a procedure in your relationship.
It's not like you're gonna get divorced or break up because your wife/husband/gf/bf listens to smth you don't like!
It's a matter of taste and love is stronger than all.
and also you don't choose who to fall in love with.
So if you fall in love with someone who happens to despise trance, and listens to other genres -- either it is a mistake or you're gonna work out somehow.
I listen to a majority of genres, that is -- the fact that my bf is not very fond of trance does not bother me at all and it is NOT what will tear us apart.
If a person is choosing to make his music to his lifestyle -- then he has to manage with the concequences and to comperhend that if you believe in something, you can't live p-e-a-c-e-f-u-l-y with one who doesn't believe in it.
There will always be something to debate about.
So it's a matter of how you treat things, matter of personality and character.
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