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my wife doesn't get it....
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epsilon_iridani
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 16:35
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Hello PSYFOLK!
its been a strange week for me and i wanted to share with u...
my wife of two years now is 'refusing' to listen to psychedelic (ive plugged her up in her sleep with minimal goa - just to have her go ballistic at me when she wakes up with headphones  For a year now ive accepted that maybe she just doesnt like the scene associated with the music - but now, after a recent night out; seems like she doesnt like the music associated with the scene. grrrr. This is making me v.confused - as we went to samothraki last year and had a good time, except, she didnt join me on the trancefloor (instead just sunning herself by the sea & meeting people!! WHY?!? I LOVE HER!
is anyone in such a relationship? and if so - how / what do i need to do, so that we can SHARE EVERYTHING!!
<<(epsilon)>>
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nova
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 16:41
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sweet
well... honestly, i think you can do almost nothing. if this what she feels then let it be.
but...
maybe you should start let her hearing some chill-out or down tempo tunes... u know.. the special ones that no one can resist (  )
and slowly show her the world of electronic sounds maybe after that she will be more open to trance.
p.s...
plugged her in her sleep???
i think you've seen too many movies  just flow baby... just flow... |
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cubensis
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 16:45
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I don't think you should care about this too much. Everyone has different tastes. 99.999% of the people in this world probably do not like psy-trance, so it should only be a bonus if you find a mate who does.
My girlfirend of 3 years does not care for any electronic music. I listen to it all the time, but it doesn't do anything for her. This distressed me at first, but then I realized that it doesn't matter. There are plenty of other more important things about her that I like.
It's only music, and chances are your relationship with your wife will outlast your relationship with psy.
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Eventually I will do some psychedelics with my girlfriend and play some good music. If she doesn't like it under the influence, then I will just give up =) |
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epsilon_iridani
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 16:52
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But i married her!! surely this is a commitment in itself?? ive listened to her music and i agree it is so, so-
man, do you know what she listens to?
e.g.
- muse
- elastica
- counting crows
- sheryl crow
- simon & garfunkel (this is totally awesome)
<<(epsilon)>>
It is by will alone I set my mind in
motion.
It is by the juice of Sapho that thoughts
acquire speed -
The lips acquire stains -
The stains become a warning - blah, blah , blah! |
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nova
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 16:58
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muse are pretty good imho...
maybe you should hypnotize her
im just kidding.
seriously, try chill out.
is it bothering you that much?
just flow baby... just flow... |
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epsilon_iridani
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 17:02
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well nova - its been two years now - and would be nice if i came home one day to find her banging some israeli psychedelic.. i suppose i can wait (im in it to win it now...
p.s. good advice with the chill out - any examples?
It is by will alone I set my mind in
motion.
It is by the juice of Sapho that thoughts
acquire speed -
The lips acquire stains -
The stains become a warning - blah, blah , blah! |
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medir
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 17:10
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my girlfriend doesn t like psy neither  though i m a lucky guy she doesn t listen to S&G ...chk out tunes/releases from
-ultimae rec. ( solar fields, huva network, aes dana,...)
-saafi brothers
-entheogenic
-banco de gaia
...such she likes too 
...n try the ambient/chill section...
experiment !
make it your motto day and night.
experiment,
and it will lead you to the light.
the apple on the top of the tree
is never too high to achieve,
so take an example from eve...
experiment ! |
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epsilon_iridani
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 17:20
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A thousand thanks!! Such a simple - yet crafty approach! Ive come across stuff from ultimae Recs and went to see 'aes dana' in london; synergy (i think)? She fell asleep. (i think this means its VERY GOOD chill out!) The last great chill out album was 'hallucinogen in dub' for me!! Sheer Class! bit too short though...
It is by will alone I set my mind in
motion.
It is by the juice of Sapho that thoughts
acquire speed -
The lips acquire stains -
The stains become a warning - blah, blah , blah! |
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Henry
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 17:25
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The sex collumnist in GQ says:
"most women will try everything once and, if you're nice, twice"
Looks like you screwed it up bad.
p.s. I love the part where you say you wish you could come home and find her banging out some israeli trance. Be careful what you wish for my friend (see the film "Maneater" for a good example).
Try covering the bed with rose petals, giving her a gentle massage, cooing softly into her ear and then when she's completely relaxed ask her in plain english if she wouldn't mind you...you know....just once...tell her you'll fastforward to the chill track if its too painful.
Alternatively get her drunk. |
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tom anteater
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 17:27
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@ henry hahahahahahahahaha nice one mate but what you doing readin gq??
>>love will tear us apart...<< |
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psilocybe
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 17:31
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hmm divorce her then... god how superficial, if u're seriously worried that u guys dont have the same music tastes, then i dunno...similar tastes are a bonus in a relationship, not a prerequisite... |
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epsilon_iridani
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 17:35
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hmmm this has it benefits henry, for sure, but which track would i use....?
As for the petals (beautiful idea m8) Id have to attempt this during summer time i think - (cheap) rose petals are damn hard to come by in england at the mo & In the summer my neighbours rose bush is open access
It is by will alone I set my mind in
motion.
It is by the juice of Sapho that thoughts
acquire speed -
The lips acquire stains -
The stains become a warning - blah, blah , blah! |
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Candy
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 19:07
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Mike A
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 19:19
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Well my ex-gf HATED trance.. Nothing you can do about it
And if after 2 years she still doesn't like it, after being exposed to it.. I think you get the hint
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a3k
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Posted : Apr 20, 2004 19:28
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yes....
i think it should b something from the inside that would bring her 2 psychedelia...shown her thix beautifull world, but she must fell some kind of inside calling.....my opinion of course....
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