Whats with the 'couple entry' only?

On 2010-01-01 08:59, dave604 wrote:
Skeptical about even posting this but lets take things way off tangent.

The age old stag/couple discussion! Couple of years back I would maybe rant here myself. Accept this paradigm as fact of life and start taking steps to change things that bother your existence. Sucks, I sound like Dr. Phil here.

Honestly wouldn’t we rather like to have some women around in life. Such lovely creatures, love everything about them (specially the drama). So many life epiphanies have in some way or the other popped from interacting with women and trying to figure how to get it right. It's not like I've figured this all out, still a long way to go.

IMHO this is something deeper all of us need to deal with here because the current attitude towards the whole issue just isn't working.

Quoting FD

1. I don't know many girls in the psy scene, and won’t possibly find someone to enter with the next time this happens.

-Why on earth would you think this way? Anything is possible. Trippers like you should know that for a FACT!

2. I know a lot of people just like me who like to simply sip on a pint of beer and stand in a corner without being a bother to a single soul in the party.

-So maybe stir things up a bit a try something different next time you go out. Bother some people and don't stand in corners! Forget women even I find that creepy. Go out with people who like to participate and have fun! It’s a party after all n it’s good to infect vibes by busting some looney moves. And most importantly you guys simply have to make more women friends. I can't stress enough on the word just FRIENDS. Always good to have at least 2-3 (in every metro if possible :-p). Brothers put your self out there and make an effort to meet more women. Signing out!

Accept this paradigm as fact of life and start taking steps to change things that bother your existence. Sucks, I sound like Dr. Phil here.

Honestly wouldn’t we rather like to have some women around in life... So many life epiphanies have in some way or the other popped from interacting with women and trying to figure how to get it right. It's not like I've figured this all out, still a long way to go.

Go out with people who like to participate and have fun! It’s a party after all n it’s good to infect vibes by busting some looney moves.

On 2010-01-08 01:30, Forest dreams wrote:

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On 2010-01-01 08:59, dave604 wrote: Skeptical about even posting this but lets take things way off tangent. The age old stag/couple discussion! Couple of years back I would maybe rant here myself. Accept this paradigm as fact of life and start taking steps to change things that bother your existence. Sucks, I sound like Dr. Phil here. Honestly wouldn’t we rather like to have some women around in life. Such lovely creatures, love everything about them (specially the drama). So many life epiphanies have in some way or the other popped from interacting with women and trying to figure how to get it right. It's not like I've figured this all out, still a long way to go. IMHO this is something deeper all of us need to deal with here because the current attitude towards the whole issue just isn't working. Quoting FD 1. I don't know many girls in the psy scene, and won’t possibly find someone to enter with the next time this happens. -Why on earth would you think this way? Anything is possible. Trippers like you should know that for a FACT! 2. I know a lot of people just like me who like to simply sip on a pint of beer and stand in a corner without being a bother to a single soul in the party. -So maybe stir things up a bit a try something different next time you go out. Bother some people and don't stand in corners! Forget women even I find that creepy. Go out with people who like to participate and have fun! It’s a party after all n it’s good to infect vibes by busting some looney moves. And most importantly you guys simply have to make more women friends. I can't stress enough on the word just FRIENDS. Always good to have at least 2-3 (in every metro if possible :-p). Brothers put your self out there and make an effort to meet more women. Signing out!

hi dave604, why create an account just to post on this thread?? whats to lose if you post with your own id?

And you seem to have placed yourself rather well in every stag's shoes with this post. of course im being sarcastic -

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Accept this paradigm as fact of life and start taking steps to change things that bother your existence. Sucks, I sound like Dr. Phil here.

start changing things that bother my existence? NOT meeting women at some sodding psy club party is definitely not bothering my existence. infact, i doubt if its bothering anyone Else's existence around here.. but i cant unassumingly speak for the world just like you cant. anyway, my thread was a result of concern over this becoming a growing trend.. then i would stop entering these clubs eventually.. because this is the one thing that divides a 'club' scene from a psy scene imo. not that im dying to be there in the first place, but wouldn't mind going occasionally depending on the preference of the artist.

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Honestly wouldn’t we rather like to have some women around in life... So many life epiphanies have in some way or the other popped from interacting with women and trying to figure how to get it right. It's not like I've figured this all out, still a long way to go.

well, have to agree to the latter half of this post.. but then before this macho post why assume that 'stags' don't have enough women in their life - maybe they do but consequently don't have anyone to enter with on that evening.. or even dont prefer a date for such an event.. now what??

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Go out with people who like to participate and have fun! It’s a party after all n it’s good to infect vibes by busting some looney moves.

and i have to do all this because.. im so lonely that i want to change myself and see lots of women around me or simply because i dont have a date for this event, and dont want to be dateless ever again?

are we here for the women, or are we here for the music?

On 2010-01-01 08:59, dave604 wrote:

The age old stag/couple discussion! Couple of years back I would maybe rant here myself. Accept this paradigm as fact of life and start taking steps to change things that bother your existence. Sucks, I sound like Dr. Phil here.

Honestly wouldn’t we rather like to have some women around in life. Such lovely creatures, love everything about them (specially the drama). So many life epiphanies have in some way or the other popped from interacting with women and trying to figure how to get it right. It's not like I've figured this all out, still a long way to go.

And most importantly you guys simply have to make more women friends. I can't stress enough on the word just FRIENDS. Always good to have at least 2-3 (in every metro if possible :-p). Brothers put your self out there and make an effort to meet more women. Signing out!