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..so few women in the L.A trance scene..
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David(KIVA)
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 22:20
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offthenutboom
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 22:30
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I think you should listen to the women and try to make an effort to hear their point of view. If not... parties will be pretty one dimensional.
I think Shroom was talking about personal experience. So if that group of specific ppl paw her up... So be it. Some other girls will be grinded by some other ppl and some aliens. I thought communicating was more effective.
I feel the attitude of this thread sounds more like PROM that a trance party, of course until the women spoke 
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CLAW
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 22:46
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mubali
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 22:50
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One of the biggest attractions to outdoor psy gathering I have experienced is the usual general low priority of the whole "meat market" aspect that you tend to find in most clubs. Honestly I don't go to parties to pick up chick, and I am a shameless flirt! For me the music is the most important thing and the vibe usually does well without attempting to get some while you are there... Of course the ladies there are beautiful and I do find myself trying to talk to them, but at the same time I wouldn't want someone hitting on me all the time while I am trying to dance and have a good time.
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David(KIVA)
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 22:50
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*christine*
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 22:53
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Shroom_Goddess
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 23:11
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On 2005-06-16 22:30, offthenutboom wrote:
I think you should listen to the women and try to make an effort to hear their point of view..... I thought communicating was more effective.
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Thanks offthenutboom... you too Mubali for LISTENING... I do not want to offend anybody...but rather would really appreciate if this stopped, I love trance music and you guys probably do not realize how offensive and invasive this can be especially while tripping. PEACE |
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droozi
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 23:19
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To be honest - true trancers never bug or paw women. The problem in clubs is usually its full of commercial crowd - which results in pawing etc. I know that a few parties on the east coast I have had to sorta protect my girlfriend from aggressive male behaviour - its a complete trip kill if you ask me. |
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Signifying Monkey
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 23:22
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On 2005-06-16 09:00, bluespectralmonkey wrote:
... the women have thier role, the boys have thier toys,
girl djs tend to attract more women to the scene, and yesk, having attractive men at the decks seems to be something i hear often...eh...
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WOW! VERY PSYCHEDELIC AND RESPECTFUL !!!
This will surely get more women to come, let's objectify them....... (of course I am being sarcastic... MUST ALWAYS CLARIFY) |
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green nun
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Posted : Jun 16, 2005 23:42
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shroom - i think the organizers would appreciate being told of situations that make you feel uncomfortable to the point of leaving a party.
Fighting for peace is like fucking for virginity... |
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Shroom_Goddess
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Posted : Jun 17, 2005 00:08
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On 2005-06-16 23:42, green nun wrote:
shroom - i think the organizers would appreciate being told of situations that make you feel uncomfortable to the point of leaving a party.
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I JUST DID;-)and you read the compassionate reaction my friend... |
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Pisces1979
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Posted : Jun 17, 2005 00:25
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I have aked organizers before to stop booking big name acts at clubs like Avalon. I hope they will realize that there are much better clubs across the rivers in Brooklyn, Queens and New Jersey that have more space and a more female friendly enviroment. |
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David(KIVA)
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Posted : Jun 17, 2005 00:27
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i dont think pawing or groping or touching, brushing, whatever in any way - anytime is cool. It sucks believe me it has happend to my wife on numerous occasions. Unfortunately this can happen anywhere not just at LA parties. That is all im agreeing to...............................................................................
NOT COOL and Im married so this topic doesnt apply for me, thanks. just giving my 2 cents I guess
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Shroom_Goddess
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Posted : Jun 17, 2005 00:32
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I know what you mean KIVA but just maybe psyheads can rise above this? Or is that too much to ask? There is a reson why I do not go clubbing JUST ANYWHERE |
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Shroom_Goddess
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Posted : Jun 17, 2005 00:33
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did i forget to say peace!?
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