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wats happening in ure life these dayz !
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Forest dreams
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Posted : Feb 20, 2010 18:41
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On 2010-02-18 15:58, gutter wrote:
That girl who makes your heart bloom every time you see her and want to do everything for her, the next day not even talk to you 
As for guys giving it all..
Keep strong man
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well, depends.. litterally. This sounds like a relation that was never meant to be, i have dumped a couple of girls this way where i woke up after a month into it and then stopped calling and answering! that's the reason you should make her your closest friend/ be her closest friend first before asking her out. as in, know for a fact that 'company' is greater than than the 'fear of loss of interest'. I have the liberty to know that my girlfriend no matter where she goes, or whom she marries cannot stay without talking to me.. 
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On 2010-02-19 11:03, day_tripper wrote:
Girls definitely have a switch, and they can flip it overnight!
Infact you can see it in her eyes a few days before, but you generally chose to ignore it.
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ruthlessly true!
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On 2010-02-18 19:10, Run Lola wrote:
yes we are like dogs who can smell fear and attack you.. so we smell the weakness..
some guys believe that they are "too lucky" to be with this girl, kind of "oh i can't believe she chose me". so they start acting too nice in fear of losing the girl. and fear my friend, is the enemy of any relationship.
to answer your question, girls switch easier to the "fuck off" mode after a breakup, especially if she imposed the breakup.
on the other hand guys felt lonelier, more depressed, they find it hard to accept that the perfect image that they once drew was shattered.
In fact, three times as many men commit suicide after a disastrous love affair as women do.
ok anymore advise on relationships??
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well, i kind of agree with you, when things tend to go bad its better to not chase the girl, and simply show her how big your heart is and let go.. i know it always helps - and thats probably and only because girls like it that way, they don't want to feel guilty for messing up things, or feel that they ended up hurting the guy they loved for ages. and how. but hold on.. what about us? ofc its all relative, but i know a lot of committed guys who would never cheat on their better halves. i guess what we look for is the same thing all our life - to be lovd and taken care of, where as what a girl wants keeps changing with time. girls are a confused breed - and they need to be controlled at times. a fuck off attitude only lets them be themselves without the guy making them realise what they really did!
and i think every relationship goes through a certain stagnation period.. where the girl or guy simply tends to look for sources of excitement outside of the relationship. now at this point its crucial that one of them stays in committed to save it all.. or else, a fuck off attitude will simply ruin it.. and both wouldn't know what they might be missing!
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psysnoopy
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Posted : Feb 21, 2010 15:18
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Is this "what's happening in your life" thread OR a Counselling Session? 
(for a second after reading I thought Im in the wrong thread untill I looked up at the header...hehe...)
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Forest dreams
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Posted : Feb 21, 2010 17:12
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On 2010-02-21 15:18, psysnoopy wrote:
Is this "what's happening in your life" thread OR a Counselling Session?
(for a second after reading I thought Im in the wrong thread untill I looked up at the header...hehe...)
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well, what do you expect when 3-4 guys on this thread are going through a break up? dont you know we have emotions too..
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kArO
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 07:43
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i'm warmed by all of the feeling in here. you're good men. i read a nice kinda cliche thing that said "everything is all right in the end. if it's not then it's not the end." basically, to everything turn, loves.
and just for the thought...
Whatever u give a woman, she will make it greater. Give her sperm, she will give u a baby. Give her a house, she will give u a home. Give her groceries, she will give u a meal. Give her a smile n she will give u her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what she is given. So if u give her crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit. |
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Forest dreams
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 08:14
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On 2010-02-22 07:43, kArO wrote:
and just for the thought...
Whatever u give a woman, she will make it greater. Give her sperm, she will give u a baby. Give her a house, she will give u a home. Give her groceries, she will give u a meal. Give her a smile n she will give u her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what she is given. So if u give her crap, be ready to receive a ton of shit.
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aww.. now you say something like that and make me fall in love with your kind all over again 
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gutter
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 09:55
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On 2010-02-21 15:18, psysnoopy wrote:
Is this "what's happening in your life" thread OR a Counselling Session?
(for a second after reading I thought Im in the wrong thread untill I looked up at the header...hehe...)
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well, what do you expect when 3-4 guys on this thread are going through a break up? dont you know we have emotions too..
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ive smoked a trillion spliffs since christmas
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Dogon
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 14:23
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On 2010-02-21 15:18, psysnoopy wrote:
Is this "what's happening in your life" thread OR a Counselling Session?
(for a second after reading I thought Im in the wrong thread untill I looked up at the header...hehe...)
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well, what do you expect when 3-4 guys on this thread are going through a break up? dont you know we have emotions too..
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ive smoked a trillion spliffs since christmas
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and dont forget those awful number of chillums!!!
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day_tripper
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 15:44
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On 2010-02-21 15:18, psysnoopy wrote:
Is this "what's happening in your life" thread OR a Counselling Session?
(for a second after reading I thought Im in the wrong thread untill I looked up at the header...hehe...)
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well, what do you expect when 3-4 guys on this thread are going through a break up? dont you know we have emotions too..
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ive smoked a trillion spliffs since christmas
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and dont forget those awful number of chillums!!!
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and what about that cheap Rum?
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gutter
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 16:03
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no alcohol please! i think it makes me more depressive and aggressive when "breaking up while being in love" situation thing, but its always subjective, can work with others.
especially if its your favorite beverage
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juice
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 16:09
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feeling happy
Studies indicate that listening to music is good for digestion. |
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Dogon
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 16:13
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On 2010-02-21 15:18, psysnoopy wrote:
Is this "what's happening in your life" thread OR a Counselling Session?
(for a second after reading I thought Im in the wrong thread untill I looked up at the header...hehe...)
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well, what do you expect when 3-4 guys on this thread are going through a break up? dont you know we have emotions too..
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ive smoked a trillion spliffs since christmas
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and dont forget those awful number of chillums!!!
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and what about that cheap Rum?
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of course, why not!!
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gutter
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 16:14
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On 2010-02-22 16:09, juice wrote:
feeling happy
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not fair
get another thread !! 
(just kidding)
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Forest dreams
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Posted : Feb 22, 2010 19:53
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feeling happy
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not fair
get another thread !!
(just kidding)
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hahha 
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J
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Posted : Feb 23, 2010 14:22
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No more red meat for John... |
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juice
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Posted : Mar 24, 2010 15:43
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too much bollywood............take me out
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