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demonsinmyheadz
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 19:09:48
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Hi guys, I'm new round here, new to psytrance too....
Friends told me for years that I must come to a trance festival, that it was Utopia, that anything goes, that people are warm and friendly, all respectful of each other and the planet.....
...so I went to Boom last summer...
Probably the most frustrating experience of my life; when you're a single guy, surrounded by all those women each more beautiful than the next,all smiles but with a definate KEEP YOUR DISTANCE inscribed on their faces, the openness I was promised?It seemed like everyone was having fun....with THEIR friends (no need to talk to other people when you're already in the "global familly")
Even drugs don't help; how many sleepless nights (or afternoons rather) trying to sleep with my head full of suntanned female bodies writhing on the dancefloor but not on me.....
It all seemed so...closed, so snooty, so hypocrite....so frigid...
So I said to myself, there must be reasons for this; Okay, sex is out, since AIDS; even though we all know how to do it safely..
Maybe women just don't want it (this can be explained in part by the delhibelly you generally get at any festival, and I don't need to draw diagrams to show why men can still get turned on enough while squeezing their ass cheeks, but women need to open their legs .....)
But what about free love?What about the best free legal high you can get on this planet??
Can you imagine an orgasm on the dancefloor?
Why is all this so frowned upon?
Why is it okay to propose coke to someone, but not your body?
Why do women in trance dress to be sexy, but don't want?(don't tell me they're just keeping cool)
Why am I gonna be treated as a pervert, even though (from reading posts)you guys seem to think about nothing else?
Can someone explain???
Comments from women welcome....
There you go; first post ever,maybe last psyfestival ever, unless it gets less lonely...
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Ascension
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 19:13
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Xolvexs
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 20:36
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you can watch but you can't touch
best way...flip out and strip urself on the dancefloor...or at least pretend to flip out and flip it out...everything is okay everything goes 
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Ascension
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 20:45
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kriz
Horrordelic Records
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 20:51
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just be yourself and relax... and things will go from there.. if youre too desperate and only want one thing its hard to not see it...
what we say ? chill have a joint , pass it around and get to know some people... or pass around some food or drinks or whatever you got...
its life like it should be imho
3o~ kriz aka krize 3o~ ....Horrordelic Records.... http://www.horrordelic.com
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J
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 20:53
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Did you even try??
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Xolvexs
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 20:55
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On 2009-06-19 20:51, kriz wrote:
just be yourself and relax... and things will go from there.. if youre too desperate and only want one thing its hard to not see it...
what we say ? chill have a joint , pass it around and get to know some people... or pass around some food or drinks or whatever you got...
its life like it should be imho, i always meet alot of new people on every festival, its just fun and creating a good vibes is something most people enjoy !
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for everythinhg else theres mastercard and spiking is KING...to tame the lizard be the lizard
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faxinadu
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 21:23
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saintcarl
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 22:20
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In my experience sex and psychedelics are not good match up. Also getting to know people when on psychedelics can be difficult and most women like to get to know there man before giving it up. Psy party is a great place to have fun with your friends and maybe met some friends through your existing friends. Bad place to find a girl friend or simply someone to have sex with. Better off at local bar or coffee shop or just about anywhere else for that matter. Try a house party if you can stand the music! |
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demoniac
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 22:30
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Wizack Twizack
Wizack Twizack
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 22:57
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Get a girlfriend and go with her to the festival, then u can have as many orgasms u want in ur tent or whatever 
boom festival aint no fly club full of half prostitutes looking for dicks to pay their drinks.
most the people around this sceen are innit for the music and friendship i guess.
bOm..
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Ascension
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Posted : Jun 19, 2009 23:07
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Spasm
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Posted : Jun 20, 2009 00:32
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On 2009-06-19 19:13, Ascension wrote:
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On 2009-06-19 19:09:48, demonsinmyheadz wrote:
...so I went to Boom last summer...
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There's your problem.
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So how was last year's boom festival for you? That bad? |
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Spasm
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Posted : Jun 20, 2009 00:34
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I think pretty much has been said concerning this issue.
Sex and psychedelics are not a good relation, there's always that "aura" of a pretencious spirituallity that gets in the way. |
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Balcannibal
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Posted : Jun 20, 2009 01:04
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On 2009-06-19 22:57, Wizack Twizack wrote:
Get a girlfriend and go with her to the festival, then u can have as many orgasms u want in ur tent or whatever
boom festival aint no fly club full of half prostitutes looking for dicks to pay their drinks.
most the people around this sceen are innit for the music and friendship i guess.
bOm..
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True!!!
On the other hand, go to a festival and be yourself, maybe you will find a girl with the same ''needs'' as yours, maybe you'll find another person with the thought I-wanna-fuck-until-the-drug-is-on-and-music-is-kicking-me-on-the-dancefloor-while-I-have-multiple-orgasms-with-a-sexy-trancy-looking-body, who knows  Or if you can't find that person, go to the tent. I've heard that today's tents are pretty jerkable 
Some people never go crazy. What truly horrible lives they must lead... |
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