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Forest dreams
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Posted : Oct 22, 2009 11:08
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On 2009-10-22 11:00, Dogon wrote:
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On 2009-10-22 10:57, Forest dreams wrote:
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On 2009-10-21 10:53, Run Lola wrote:
I think the solid base of a lasting relationship is honesty with yourself and with your partner... that you elevate the bond that you have to beyond "good and evil" "right and wrong" and you set your own rules with your lover.. it takes work, and understanding, and trust.
once you start lying..you break this bond
As long as there is honesty and respect... there is love  so be open and communicate.
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+infinity!
i have had & still have instances where i could just cheat on my partner as she is not with me but i dont do it cos i really love her & she trust me too!
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http://www.fambooks.com/couples.htm
http://cdn-write.demandstudios.com/upload//4000/700/80/4/14784.jpg
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fuck you!
i dont need any lessons, i know it all now!
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sorry to say that but long distance relationships are one big fat illusion!
don't hate me Dogon, but that's reality.
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+1
If it gets long enough, then its gonna lead to stagnation, boredom and finally loss of interest. Imo, its important to be with each other as much to keep it going strong.
e. getting married at boom? - congrats man 
oh, and disregard the webpage man.. i know it sucks, but so do long distance relations.    Nothing is said that has not been said before. |
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Dogon
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Posted : Oct 22, 2009 11:09
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depends on how strong the bond is!
We were born naked & grow up to become wicked. |
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Forest dreams
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Posted : Oct 22, 2009 11:15
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Dogon
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Posted : Oct 22, 2009 13:14
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e. getting married at boom? - congrats man
oh, and disregard the webpage man.. i know it sucks, but so do long distance relations.
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thanks mon!
we were actually together for 3 months in the mountains this summer & then she had to leave back to work, thus we ended up in this long distance relation, no choice!
but we are committed & optimistic & we love each other, thats the best part!
We were born naked & grow up to become wicked. |
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gutter
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Posted : Oct 22, 2009 13:48
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i believe !!
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mk47
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Posted : Oct 22, 2009 13:53
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soo , 3 months in paradise partying ... and u want to marry her , perfectly acceptable .. but id strongly suggest moving in for another 3 months in a regular life situation before u do , just to see , and don't get me wrong , i wish u the very best =)
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Dogon
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Posted : Oct 22, 2009 14:22
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On 2009-10-22 13:53, mk47 wrote:
soo , 3 months in paradise partying ... and u want to marry her , perfectly acceptable .. but id strongly suggest moving in for another 3 months in a regular life situation before u do , just to see , and don't get me wrong , i wish u the very best =)
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thanks gutter!
thanks mk47: that's a wise suggestion! We were born naked & grow up to become wicked. |
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toogoodforyou
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Posted : Oct 24, 2009 23:06
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On 2009-10-21 10:53, Run Lola wrote:
That is a beautiful topic! and you're right to ask about the people here in the scene because we pretend to be liberal and so called open minded and we believe in free love, right?
so take the scenario where are you are in a beautiful relationship and you adore your woman/man, and you go to a festival or party and you have this incredible connection with another person... what would you do? we are all human, it will happen, especially if you are a passionate person in your nature.
I think the solid base of a lasting relationship is honesty with yourself and with your partner... that you elevate the bond that you have to beyond "good and evil" "right and wrong" and you set your own rules with your lover.. it takes work, and understanding, and trust.
once you start lying..you break this bond
As long as there is honesty and respect... there is love so be open and communicate.
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+1
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toogoodforyou
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Posted : Oct 24, 2009 23:07
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e. getting married at boom? - congrats man
oh, and disregard the webpage man.. i know it sucks, but so do long distance relations.
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thanks mon!
we were actually together for 3 months in the mountains this summer & then she had to leave back to work, thus we ended up in this long distance relation, no choice!
but we are committed & optimistic & we love each other, thats the best part!
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Best of luck dude.... its pretty cool you getting married at the Boom festival. Hope things work out for the best. At times they work differently than what we plan... Life sure is a mystery. |
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lady seals
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Posted : Oct 25, 2009 02:39
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my husband loves that i love psy. he supports me and enjoys seeing me enjoy my hobby. he can listen to psy for about 30 minutes at a time when his adhd starts to go insane. it's not his cup of tea, but it never hinders our love. |
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Dogon
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Posted : Oct 25, 2009 12:29
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e. getting married at boom? - congrats man
oh, and disregard the webpage man.. i know it sucks, but so do long distance relations.
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thanks mon!
we were actually together for 3 months in the mountains this summer & then she had to leave back to work, thus we ended up in this long distance relation, no choice!
but we are committed & optimistic & we love each other, thats the best part!
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Best of luck dude.... its pretty cool you getting married at the Boom festival. Hope things work out for the best. At times they work differently than what we plan... Life sure is a mystery.
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thanks man!
life is a mystery for sure!
it was mysterious that we met & got along 
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Yidam
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Posted : Nov 4, 2009 14:24
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Duuude! congratulations!
Never been to Boom and this is super+ incentive
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makus
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Posted : Nov 4, 2009 14:34
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day_tripper
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Posted : Nov 5, 2009 14:51
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On 2009-10-22 13:53, mk47 wrote:
soo , 3 months in paradise partying ... and u want to marry her , perfectly acceptable .. but id strongly suggest moving in for another 3 months in a regular life situation before u do , just to see , and don't get me wrong , i wish u the very best =)
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I second that.
And wish you luck and happiness
PS: can I be the best man? That means u get to sponsor my travel, and stay.... and... 
"It's not the fall that kills you; it's the sudden stop at the end." - Douglas Adams |
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Krod20
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Posted : Nov 6, 2009 02:03
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I think that fact that you are here on the internet posting this should tell you that ofcourse you can commit because imagine the brian power it took to rationalize and make sence of the internet. This is why were are human not animals like a dog because you can rationalize concepts like commintent. Well at least most people.
So if you are lucky enough to meet someone right for you dont fuck up or least try your hardest because we is not perfect =) |
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